Five Signs That She Is Cheating on You
Wondering if you’re being cheated on? You may see some of the signs your partner is cheating before having any real proof, but there’s just that awful, gut-wrenching sensation when something is a bit off and you can’t put into words what it is. You might have your suspicions, but not really any evidence.
It’s not bad to be wary of this kind of thing, but it’s important to not jump to conclusions and risk damaging your relationship if nothing is truly going on. In this article, I’ll be giving you 5 signs to look for if your partner’s behavior is making you question everything.
1. She Keeps To Herself
Women love to talk. They love to talk about their day, their feelings, and what they had for lunch etc. It’s one of their best qualities. I say all of this to say, if your girl isn’t talking about her day to you, she’s probably telling someone else. They say familiarity breeds contempt, and absence can make the heart grow fonder, but only to an extent. If she doesn’t think to call or text you when something exciting, funny, or terrible happens, there’s a chance something’s up.
In most relationships, women tend to be more emotionally available than their male counterparts. When you decide to open up and fully share yourself with your woman, and her with you, your relationship really begins to grow. This means that if she’s quiet or short with you, she may be filling that emotional void somewhere else. It’s also possible that she’s suffering from a depressive episode or something of the like, so regardless of what conclusions your jealous mind might jump to, it’s never a bad idea to just let her know you’re there for her whenever she needs you.
2. She Hides Her Phone
Our phones are our lifelines these days, so if someone has always acted a particular way about their phone, that’s normal. The situation only becomes abnormal when that behavior changes suddenly, like if she suddenly changes her passcode, getting messages at odd hours or leaves her phone at home all together. Women may hide texts, emails, and direct messages from a ‘good friend’ or a ‘friend from work’, but if your woman is carrying on with another man in your midst, there’s always the (even if only the slightest) chance that it could turn into something more.
If there’s one thing I know about women in 2020, it’s that they are addicted to their phones. So if something was going on behind the scenes, her phone and behavior surrounding it would be a key indication. Instead of scrolling through social media with you on the couch, she leaves her phone in the other room. If she’s doing something on her phone that she shouldn’t, she’ll feel guilty about it and it’ll show.
3. She’s Never In the ‘Mood’
For men, sex is simple, it’s about showing how you feel in a physical sense. For women, sex is an emotional act. So if she hasn’t been initiating anything, or hasn’t been in the mood at all, something might be up. If they’re unhappy in their relationship, or just upset temporarily, sex is usually the last thing on their mind. If she’s not having sex with you, she’s either not having it, or she’s doing it with someone else.
If you talk to her about this, it’s best not to do it in an accusatory way. There’s many reasons that she may not want to have sex with you right now, whether she’s on a new medication or just more stressed than usual, it’s sometimes hard to say. However, there are ways to find out what’s going on without tipping her off or accusing her of anything. One way to do this is to ask her how she feels about a weekend getaway with you to get that fire back. Gauge her response and it can give you some idea of where you guys stand.
4. You Get Into More Arguments
Suddenly those cute, quirky things about you that made her fall in love with you aren’t so cute. Suddenly she becomes more interested in hanging out with her friends rather than you. She becomes hard to reach and when you try harder to get through to her, suddenly you’re being ‘possessive’. If any of this sounds familiar to you, there could be something more insidious hiding below the surface.
If she’s suddenly acting rude or insensitive to you, there’s a huge chance that it has more to do with her than with you. Women are emotional creatures, and while there’s a good chance it could have something to do with you or your role in your relationship, there are many other factors at play. These factors include, but are not limited to, her family, friends, work situation, living situation, and more. So if you’re noticing a change in her attitude towards you, you can talk candidly to her about it to try and get to the root of the issue.
5. She Changes Her Appearance
We’re not talking about a new pair of jeans, or a new nail color. If your woman has recently cut and dyed her hair, along with a whole new wardrobe and starts to take extra long looking in the mirror, she may be getting ready for her departure from your relationship. In many cases, women that don’t feel entirely satisfied in their relationships tend to start looking around and seeing what else is out there before jumping ship. Women always have a back up plan!
We may not want to accept it, but sometimes the ones we love the most are also the ones hurting us the most. Lies, deception, and disloyalty are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to things that can go wrong in a relationship. If you think the one you love is doing some unsavory things behind your back, use these signs to get to the bottom of it!
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